Go Getters World

You men out there like to think that the ladies are the only ones with a head full of neurotic, insecure, unreasonable relationship behavior. Let me clue you in to a bit of reality, manfriends: just because you’re “super laid-back” (meaning: toilet seat can stay up, laundry can go unwashed) doesn’t mean that you aren’t making your fair share of love missteps. Because you are.

As your date, girlfriend or opposite sex friend, we’ve watched you wade your way through all of them. So for the benefit of all men out there this is what you’re doing wrong. So stop it;

1. Watching TV during serious conversations

Things like the tv, video games, texting, playing online games etc take your attention away from the conversation at hand, and that’s never a good idea. Your lady friend is going to think you’re the bees knees if you give her your undivided attention. So find the off switch and use it.

2. Lying about your relationship status to yourself and others

If you know the type of relationship you want, that’s great; just make sure the rest of us know too. If being in a monogamous relationship isn’t your thing, then once again, you need to fill us in. Granted, women frequently use the “boyfriend” word too soon, but just as often, men avoid it like the plague.

If you’re having sleepovers, introduced her to your friends and you’ve met hers and you’re not doing this with anyone else, you have a girlfriend. That’s just the way it is. If you don’t like that, do something about it.

3. Questioning our love of flowers

Or anything else that women love but seem totally irrational to you. The fact that the flowers will die in a few days doesn’t matter, nor does spending money on something that won’t live to see next week. We love them and we love the fact that you bought them for us. Moreover, stop applying reason to the small emotional pleasures of life. It’s futile.

Your girl likes what she likes and you should be less concerned with breaking down the why and focusing more on the how as in how it makes her feel and how it makes you look awesome.

4. Double standards

I’m not one for gross over generalizations, but men are worse than women where double standards are concerned. You want her to focus all her attention on you, but then you launch into a rant about how it didn’t mean a thing when she gets upset about your flirt fest with the busty bartender. Bottom line is this; if you want, you have to give. Simple.

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